Maybe the most powerful two words you can ever speak, said right,
these will cover more ground for you with women than anything else.

Men make the mistake of trying to logically analyze things when often
a woman just wants an outlet to release her thoughts. So try this:

Whenever she starts saying something that you don’t understand,
before you try to logically deconstruct it, try nodding once and
saying,

“I understand.”

If she starts going on about problems she’s had, try:

“I understand, that sounds tough.”

If she says something quickly about having a bad day, just like one
of her shoes broke or one of her coworkers was mean, try:

“Sounds tough.”

Nothing else. Let her keep talking, and get it off her chest. One
major difference I’ve observed over the years is that successful men
say less and get her saying more, and don’t judge or analyze what
she’s saying most of the time.

The flipside is, when you rarely give input into her affairs, she’ll
actually be way more likely to listen to you when something important
comes up.

I understand.
I understand, that sounds tough.
Sounds tough.

Use them regularly - you’ll come across higher status, women will be
more attracted to you, they’ll be happier around you, and on the
rare occasion that you do speak up, they’ll be listening.

Sebastian
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http://www.theapproach.com

Precedence is of the utmost importance. Once someone says they like
or don’t like something, it establishes that preference
semi-permanently and it’s hard to make people change. People don’t
want to seem silly, whimsical, or inconsistent - and many people
are just downright stubborn.

So, if you’ve got a girlfriend that you want to do high level stuff
with, like say, share another girl with her, you don’t want her to
say “no! never!” the first time you bring it up - This is a mistake.

Worse still, the natural inclination for many men is to argue, making
her affirm, “no! never!” repeatedly - and crippling the chances of
opening a new, open-minded facet of your relationship.

Want a great technique to turn it around?

When she starts to say, “no! never!” to say, being with another
girl, you say, “Don’t say no, say maybe.” She might protest again.
Stay strong and calm. “Don’t say no, say maybe.” And if necessary,
“Hey - just say maybe, ok?” Persist until you get that “maybe” - and
the door swings WIDE open. Just even considering the possibility of
being with another girl is HUGE here.

Once she says “maybe”, reward her with a light touch, or little bit
of affection, and cut the thread and chat about something else.

Sebastian

10 second tip: When you’re having a new girl over to your place, as
soon as you walk inside, take off your shoes and say “Shoes off” -

Many people follow this practice anyway for a variety of reasons,
and it’s not uncommon in most places. Having girls take their shoes
off means they’ll be more comfortable in your home, they’ll have a
precedence of having taken off even that small article of clothing,
and will also vibe “I’ll probably be staying a little while”.

Keep playin’,

Sebastian