AsktheApproach: Getting Psyched Up
> Seb
> How do u psych yourself into approaching a milf on the stret? NOBODY
> SEEMS TO KNOW
> CL
Okay CL -
Here’s the deal. First, consider logically: What do you have to lose, and what do you have to gain? The worst thing that happens on an approach is that you get a mild sting. The best is you meet a woman that literally changes your life. People aren’t even hostile when they don’t like you - just indifferent. Which does sting yeah. But it’s NOTHING compared to winding up with a girlfriend who was a Cirque du Soleil trained acrobat - editor of a fashion magazine and TV personality - international model - club dancer - or something along those lines. Those are all women I’ve been blessed enough to have in my life from various approaches.
Okay, so sitting at home, realize: Nothing to lose, everything to gain.
Now, here’s the secret: When you see a cute girl, just GO! Don’t think, go! Ok? Go!
That’s it. Nervousness, adrenalin, getting “jacked up” or “nerves firing” - it happens. It stops with time. Just go, and do ANYTHING. Don’t think too much. Good luck and have fun.
-S