10 Second Tip: “I understand”

Presented in 10 Second Tips by Sebastian on Wednesday May 2, 2007

Maybe the most powerful two words you can ever speak, said right,
these will cover more ground for you with women than anything else.

Men make the mistake of trying to logically analyze things when often
a woman just wants an outlet to release her thoughts. So try this:

Whenever she starts saying something that you don’t understand,
before you try to logically deconstruct it, try nodding once and
saying,

“I understand.”

If she starts going on about problems she’s had, try:

“I understand, that sounds tough.”

If she says something quickly about having a bad day, just like one
of her shoes broke or one of her coworkers was mean, try:

“Sounds tough.”

Nothing else. Let her keep talking, and get it off her chest. One
major difference I’ve observed over the years is that successful men
say less and get her saying more, and don’t judge or analyze what
she’s saying most of the time.

The flipside is, when you rarely give input into her affairs, she’ll
actually be way more likely to listen to you when something important
comes up.

I understand.
I understand, that sounds tough.
Sounds tough.

Use them regularly - you’ll come across higher status, women will be
more attracted to you, they’ll be happier around you, and on the
rare occasion that you do speak up, they’ll be listening.

Sebastian

http://www.theapproach.com

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