When a woman asks you a boring question, and you answer without following up, you’re going to prompt more interrogation on the subject.

Classical examples:

“What do you do?”
“How old are you?”
“Where are you from?”
“How long have you been living here?”

And so on. Most men, after answering a question like this, just stop and let the woman say the next thing - this vibes that you’re waiting to see if she approves. Instead, the answer is to follow up right after you answer.

“I work for a marketing firm. What do you do?”

“I’m 28. How old are you?”

And so on - you answer normally, don’t rush your followup. But do ask her back after your answer - this shows that you’re not looking for approval, just stating a fact, and seeing if she’s compatible with you - instead of trying to impress her. This becomes especially important when it’s something that there’d be a gap between you about.

If there is a difference between you two, and you like her, let her know so after she answers you.

THE WRONG WAY:

Her: “How old are you?”

You: “28.”

Her: “Oh, you looked younger than that…”

THE RIGHT WAY:

Her: “How old are you?”

You: “I’m 28. How old are you?”

Her: “21.”

You: “Ah, really? You carry yourself so well for your age.”

Keep it real.

Sebastian
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theApproach: The Science of Social Chemistry for the Modern Gentleman