Precedence is of the utmost importance. Once someone says they like
or don’t like something, it establishes that preference
semi-permanently and it’s hard to make people change. People don’t
want to seem silly, whimsical, or inconsistent - and many people
are just downright stubborn.

So, if you’ve got a girlfriend that you want to do high level stuff
with, like say, share another girl with her, you don’t want her to
say “no! never!” the first time you bring it up - This is a mistake.

Worse still, the natural inclination for many men is to argue, making
her affirm, “no! never!” repeatedly - and crippling the chances of
opening a new, open-minded facet of your relationship.

Want a great technique to turn it around?

When she starts to say, “no! never!” to say, being with another
girl, you say, “Don’t say no, say maybe.” She might protest again.
Stay strong and calm. “Don’t say no, say maybe.” And if necessary,
“Hey - just say maybe, ok?” Persist until you get that “maybe” - and
the door swings WIDE open. Just even considering the possibility of
being with another girl is HUGE here.

Once she says “maybe”, reward her with a light touch, or little bit
of affection, and cut the thread and chat about something else.

Sebastian